Just a mature guy that has finally learned how to truly relax and enjoy life. Living in southern Spain for 10 years taught me that you work so you can enjoy life instead of our mindset of work becoming your life. I am hoping to meet like mind people that are more comfortable hanging out at a brew pub or bistro/street cafe having a few drinks, good casual conversation and laughing. Not going to loud, crowded bars or clubs. Those are fine occasionally but not the first choice for the afternoon or evening. I don’t really keep up with politics or news anymore. I think most people prefer to debate than have a respectful open conversation. I prefer to talk about fun, weird, unexpected and shocking experiences you’ve had over your life and in an environment where you don’t have to be concerned about be judged or embarrassed. And the same thing for your desires, fantasies, wish list for the future. I decided a few years ago that when I’m on my death bed there will be nothing for me to say “Damn I really wish I would have .... but I was so worried about what others might think or say about me I didn’t do it.” As I’m laying there I’m going to say “DAMN!!! That was one crazy and unbelievable ride!!! So bring on whatever’s next.” So now I am (at least I hope I am) very open to learning and experiencing new things. That’s why I love meeting new people. If your open to really listening it’s amazing what you can learn from every per you meet. I have been lucky enough to have been invited by 3 different couples to join them in threesome play. I am still friends and keep in touch with all three couples. The only rea we still don’t get together is having to move. All of us were either military or government civilians so typically never in one place more than a few years. Because of these past relationships I do know how to show respect to you both individually and as a couple. I know what a privilege it is being allowed to join you and that you have complete control over the situation. I am there to help you experience and enjoy your fantasies to the fullest. Again I am open to try pretty much anything at least once. There are a few things I know for sure I’m not into just ask and I’ll gladly share. Otherwise as long as everyone is having fun and enjoying themselves it’s amazing. So feel free to ask anything you like. Your not going to shock or scare me off. I’ve been lucky enough to live and travel all around the world and I’ve seen and or experienced some crazy things. Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person Attitude and self confidence are much sexier than looks and "style". I prefer real people who are who they are and not concerned about others opinions.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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